The poses on this couch are meant to have close contact with the person you are talking to. There are two seats that allow those that don't want to be "Jumped on" to allow them to sit on their own and have a regular conversation…here are also the "Couple poses" A straddle in the middle A head on lap while the other pets A backrub with a person sitting in front of the other on the floor IMVU has said this item is ok for GA (see NINO himself) ….