Please beware: Some of the hand held newborns does not sync well with the newborn holding poses. Please try before u buy.. no refunds No request..Thank you:) The baby works with both male and female avatar. Hold Jackson for the first time after labor and delivery! He has two pose triggers: hold and admire works best with lush or regular hands. The baby doesn't work well with dainty hands. To hold your baby, u will need to purchase the holding poses : Find it here: Click on your avatar to see what sounds ur baby makes..enjoy!!!!