YAY NO MORE GUESSING ! ! ! Put the Pink Heart on the Female side and the Blue Heart on the Male side ...Pink and Blue Heart dance markers ... TWO SIDED so you can flip to match the dance.. also hangs nicely on the wall and can be made bigger or smaller..............You can see many of my furnishing by visiting my DISPLAY / CHAT ROOM named “THE CABIN WAREHOUSE.” It’s a fun way to shop alone OR with a friend OR that Special Someone. It’s always open and filled with an ever growing assortment of cabin furnishings. I hope to see you there. Smiles ^^ …Leona