These are cards you hold in your hand. The triggers are... HOLD~to hold them in your pointer and middle fingers, FOUR~to spread out the cards to show four cards (they are all the same), C1~to hold in front of you close to face, C2~to hold out like your going to throw them, and C3~to hold up to the forhead. The image of the queen is my avi in my Queen of Hearts Gown. This product is male and female compatible.