Thanks for checking out one of my products. XD you know me... This item can be used with both genders but with male, unless you have a select few heads, it won't look like it's in your mouth. Try getting the male star head, it has girl proportions. I loves eisbrecher. This is a 3D of a CD I really burned and called The Best. X3 Not the best of. This 3D Eisbrecher Burned 3D has a bit of drool on the cover... I don't own Eisbrecher or anything by them, but I love them! Obviously.