Please take note that this dress is for boys thank you! With this being said this is a lolita dress for the lads out there!! It is gothic, if by yourself or, if you perchance find yourself a shiro lolita you may be a Kuro lolita, just be sure to accessories in all black as well if you are going to do this! ^.^ This dress gives a very slender and feminine look to your male. Please try it on before you buy to be sure you enjoy the shape and the dress!!