This is an AVATAR (female) so select and un-select it as such but note, that in my experience with this item, it does not change the way my avatar looks and I find it in "pets" for some reason O.O; I only get "50 credits per sale" off this item so obviously it is just an item I do love... it has three triggers but only the first one "eat" pertains to the baby I almost scrapped this product due to a puzzling glitch it has; THE BOTTLE IS MISSED OR SOMETIMES NOT VISIBLE O.o but I found it just too cute, so instead I lowered the price, from I would normally ask for. I tried to solve the problem but apparently, I am not experienced enough in such matters, so then I went to the source kitayama, the creator of this item (derived from a female avatar), he FRIENDED me but did not answer my question, in fact he has offered up no response at all; if you like, you the buyer, may ask him if something can be done to fix this glitch, maybe you will have better luck and if you will or can tell me how to correct this problem ,I'll go back to the drawing-board to do just that, in the meantime try before you buy & enjoy! :) I include here a message I got from kitayama's original product (THE BASE OF MY DERIVATION) page Note:If you can not see yourself when you "remove" the baby , please click reload your avatar. If you can not remove the baby when you dress up it, please click reload your avatar. It applies only to female.