This djembe works for both males and females. It plays 3 loops and has one silent animation for when you're playing in drum circles and other people are playing. Each loop is triggered by a word and fully animated. Keep note that in able to stop a loop from playing you will have to take the drum off and put it back on. The trigger words for these loops are-

drumsolo1 - plays a drum solo

drumsolo2 - plays another drum solo

drumcircle - plays a bunch of drum sounds together

drum - for playing the drum without making noise ^^

baledi - plays a baledi (good for bellydancers)

And as always, please try before you buy it!